Relationships and dating templates
Kind, honest messages for dating, partners and friendships, from first hello to hard conversations. 33 free templates, 2 of them longer notes. Open one to fill in the blanks and copy it.
Dating
From match to first date.
- Opening message Snippet First message on an app. Hi [Name]! I noticed you [Detail from profile]. [Question]
- Suggest a first date Snippet Ask them out. I have really enjoyed chatting. Would you like to grab a coffee [When]?
- Confirm date plans Snippet Lock it in. Looking forward to it! [Place] at [time now] on [Day]. See you there.
- After a good date Snippet Follow up. I had a really nice time tonight, [Name]. Would love to do it again.
- Not feeling a spark Snippet Let them down gently. Hi [Name], thank you for the date. I enjoyed meeting you, but I did not feel a romantic spark. I wish you…
- Running late to date Snippet Heads-up. So sorry, I am running about [Minutes] minutes late. I will be there as soon as I can.
- Second date idea Snippet Plan something fun. How about [Activity] on [Day]? I think you would like it.
- Safety check-in with friend Snippet Tell a friend. Going on a date with [Name] at [Place], [time now]. I will text you by [Check-in time].
Partners
Everyday love and care.
- Just because Snippet Out of the blue. Thinking about you, and just wanted to say I love you.
- Good morning love Snippet Morning message. Good morning, [Name]! Hope today is kind to you. ☀️
- Good night love Snippet Night message. Good night, [Name]. Sleep well; I love you.
- Apology to partner Snippet Say sorry. I am sorry about [What happened]. You did not deserve that. I want to understand how it felt for you.
- Plan a date night Snippet Invite your partner. Date night on [Day]? I will plan [Plan]; you just show up.
- Appreciation message Snippet Say thank you. Thank you for [What]. I notice everything you do, and I am so grateful.
- Long distance message Snippet Missing them. Counting down the days until [today]. Miss you so much.
- Checking in after a hard day Snippet Support. How are you really doing after today? I am here, whether you want to talk or just sit together.
Friendships and hard talks
Keep friendships strong.
- Miss you friend Snippet Reconnect. Hey [Name], I miss you! Can we catch up soon? Free [Availability].
- Cancel plans kindly Snippet Can not make it. I am so sorry, I need to cancel [Plan] tonight because [Reason]. Can we rebook for [Alternative]?
- Set a boundary with a friend Snippet Respectful boundary. I love our friendship, and I need to be honest: [Boundary]. I hope that makes sense.
- Clear the air Snippet After a falling out. Hey [Name], I have been thinking about what happened. I value our friendship and would love to talk it…
- Breakup message kind Snippet End a relationship. [Name], this is hard to say. I have realised I want to end our relationship. You have been [Kind words], and…
- Support a friend grieving Snippet Be there. I am so sorry, [Name]. I am here for anything, meals, errands or just company. No need to reply.
- Congratulate a friend big news Snippet Celebrate. [Name]!!! Congratulations on [News]! I am so proud of you. Celebration on me.
- Ask for support Snippet When you need a friend. Hey [Name], I am having a rough time with [Situation]. Would you be free to talk this week?
Kind words
For partners and friends.
- Proud of you Snippet Encouragement. I am so proud of you for [Achievement]. You worked so hard for this.
- Anniversary message Snippet Years together. Happy anniversary! [Years] years and I would choose you all over again.
- Date night idea Snippet Plan something. Date night [Day]? I am thinking [Idea]. I will sort everything.
- After an argument Snippet Repair. I am sorry about earlier. I care more about us than being right. Can we talk tonight?
- Long distance goodnight Snippet Miles apart. Goodnight from [City]. Counting down [Days] days until I see you.
- Friend checking in Snippet Been a while. Hey [Name], I was just thinking about you. How are you really doing?
- Ending things kindly Snippet Breakup text. I have really enjoyed getting to know you, [Name], but I do not feel we are the right match. I wish you the…
Relationship notes
Remember what matters.